Beaufort, SC

This past weekend Kevin and I ventured out on a little get away to Beaufort, SC.  We only had a couple of days so we crammed a lot into a short time.  We drove about 20 min. to go to the beach.  We saw this lighthouse and decided to climb to the top.  This particular lighthouse has been there since 1873!

I have never really been afraid of heights but as we climbed the stairs which were not solid(you could see through them) it kind of freaked me out a little the higher we got.  Here I am at the top.

 

 

 This is the view over to the side of the top of the trees.

 

Looking down from the top.

view from the top

We enjoyed a couple of hours out on the beach.

 

This is the little house we stayed in.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 We took a historic carriage ride through the downtown area.  This was a lot of fun and we learned a lot too.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A long time ago they hung pirates from this tree!

Here is an example of the kind of historic homes we saw on our ride.  Because this area has the most antebellum homes in the south this town is also where many movies are filmed such as The Big Chill, Forrest Gump, The Prince of Tides, The Great Santini, Something to talk about, and many others. 

 

 This tree is over 1000 years old!

 

We enjoyed visiting the Choc. Tree after our carriage ride. 

Our Anniversary

22 years ago on September 10th Kevin and I said "I Do."
We have been married for so long it is hard to remember my life before him.
Thank you God for giving me such a wonderful Godly husband.

You are the one for me..

the one I laugh and cry with,

the one who shares my hopes
and dreams, the one I love.

Since God brought you into my life,

you have always been the one...

making the hard times better,

and the good times sweeter.

I look forward to every new year 

the Lord gives us to walk

and talk and just be together.

You may kiss your bride!

Lukewarm People

In the parable of the sower, Jesus explained that the seed is the truth(the Word of God). When the seed is flung onto the path, it is heard but quickly stolen away. When the seed is tossed onto the rocks, no roots take hold; there is an appearance of depth and growth because of the good soil, but it is only surface level. When the seed is spread among the thorns, it is received but soon suffocated by life's worries, riches, and pleasures. But when the seed is sown in good soil, it grows, takes root, and produces fruit.

Do not assume you are good soil.

"I think most American churchgoers are the soil that chokes the seed because of all the thorns. Thorns are anything that distracts us from God. When we want God and a bunch of other stuff, then that means we have thorns in our soil. A relationship with God simply cannot grow when money, sins, activities, favorite sports teams, addictions, or commitments are piled on top of it."
"Are you satisfied being "godly enough" to get yourself to heaven, or to look good in comparison to others? Or can you say with Paul that you "want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death"(Phil. 3:10).- Francis Chan author of Crazy Love
He wrote a chap. in his book called profile of the lukewarm. The chapter goes on to talk about lukewarm people with some scriptures added in. I'm just going to make a list of some of the characteristics of a lukewarm person and you can examine yourself to see how your life is being lived.
"Lukewarm people attend church fairly regularly. It is what is expected of them, what they believe "good Christians" do, so they go."
"Lukewarm people give money to charity and to the church...as long as it doesn't impinge on their standard of living."
"Lukewarm people tend to choose what is popular over what is right when they are in conflict. They desire to fit in both at church and outside of church; they care more about what people think of their actions than what God thinks of their hearts and lives."
"Lukewarm people don't really want to be saved from their sin; they want only to be saved from the penalty of their sin. They don't genuinely hate sin and aren't truly sorry for it; they're merely sorry because God is going to punish them."
"Lukewarm people are moved by stories about people who do radical things for Christ, yet they do not act."
Lukewarm people rarely share their faith.
"Lukewarm people gauge their morality by comparing themselves to the secular world. They are satisfied with not being as bad as the guy down the street."
Lukewarm people say they love Jesus but He isn't allowed to control their lives.
"Lukewarm people love others but do not seek to love others as much as they love themselves. Their love of others is typically focused on those who love them in return."
"Lukewarm people will serve God and others, but there are limits to how far they will go or how much time, money, and energy they are willing to give."
"Lukewarm people think about life on earth much more often than eternity in heaven."
"Lukewarm people are thankful for their luxuries and comforts, and rarely consider trying to give as much as possible to the poor."

Jesus asks for everything. But we try to give Him less.

Jesus said, "Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out."Luke 14:34-35

"Jesus is saying that lukewarm, halfhearted following is useless, that it sickens our souls. He is saying that this kind of salt is not even fit 'for the manure pile.'
How would you like to hear the Son of God say, 'You would ruin manure'?"

I have been thinking about this all day. How do I measure up? Am I a lukewarm person? Sad to say but in some areas I believe I am. Did you examine yourself? Are you a lukewarm person? I'll close with an illustration that Francis Chan used in this chapter. "Everyone knows that if you sign up for the Marines, you have to do whatever they tell you. They own you. Somehow this realization does not cross over to our thinking about the Christian life. Jesus didn't say that if you wanted to follow Him you could do it in a lukewarm manner. He said, 'Take up your cross and follow me.'"

I highly recommend this book called Crazy Love. It is challenging and convicting!

What did we forget?

Zach going off to college!

packing up early in the morning.

outside his dorm

inside Zach's dorm room before he got it fixed up. Kevin is laying on Zach's bed. I guess he needed a rest.

the other side of the room

Zach's dorm

this is on the side of a mountain

LU has a ski slope which is amazing! The two boys below were snowboarding.

As a parent, as your children are growing up you are trying to train them in the way that they should go. As a part of that we try to train them to be independent while also teaching them life skills that will help them when they go out on their own. For us, our time has come, we just took Zach to Liberty Wed. and got back home last night. He has two good roommates, everyone was helpful, he got all moved in pretty quickly and is taking his freshman orientation classes. He says he really likes it so far! So why do I go over in my mind about what we may have missed. Shouldn't this be harder? What did I not teach him? Shouldn't I have cried all the way home?? Well, I did cry for a few min. and Zach was comforting me. He said, "Mom, it's going to be ok, it's just like me going to RVA but I'll be closer and come home more often." When did he get so grown up? As much as I missed him while at boarding school I am thankful for how his time away prepared him for life at college. I think it has also help prepare me and Kevin for this time in our life. I can't even imagine what it will be like when we go back to Zambia and he isn't getting on the plane with us but that will be a blog for another time. So, I guess for now we just keep praying for him and watch him grow into the man God is calling him to be. It's his time to fly....to soar...to reach new heights. I'm proud to continue to be his cheerleader!

Living Behind Walls

In rural Zambia the people live within a cluster of huts that make up a village. There are no walls of protection that surround them. They sweep their dirt outside their huts each day so that they can know if any visitors have come to their hut during the night- whether person or snake. They take pride in where they live. Zambian people are very relational and will stop whatever they are doing if a visitor comes. They then focus their attention on pleasing the visitor. They give them the best seat that they have and the best food they can prepare.
In the cities or townships most expatriate people live in homes with a 7 foot wall surrounding their property. Most often there is an electric wire or broken glass up at the top to deter thieves. Even on the windows and doors there are bars which would make it quite difficult to get into your house if a thief did make it over the wall. I'm assuming that was started as a form of protection a long time ago. So, in the city most of the neighborhoods have walls around the houses which makes it hard to see the house or even get to know your neighbors. So even in such a relational society when a wall is involved it hinders peoples ability to get out and meet those who live close to them and be involved in their lives.
So, as you can imagine when we come to the states we have to deal with the fact that we don't have a wall around our house or bars on our windows. It just seems like we are so vulnerable for anyone to be able to break in. We have only been back a few weeks but I have noticed something that I have never noticed before. We are staying in the same neighborhood that we have stayed in the last 3 times that we have been in the states. It all looks the same and I imagine many of the neighbors are the same. However, as I go for a walk in the evenings everyone is in their homes. There aren't people out in the yards visiting or sitting in the chairs on the porch chatting. Perhaps this time of year it is because of the heat. Either way, people are so busy I guess that when they get home from work or their activities they hide in their homes and relax. It just makes me wonder what has happened to us as Americans over the years. It use not to be like that. Even when I was a little girl I remember playing outside in the evenings catching lightning bugs while my parents sat outside watching us. I remember visiting neighbors and friends. It just seems like everyone in America is living behind a wall. Oh, it's not a physical wall because everyone wants others passing by in a car to see how pretty their house and yard is but there is definitely an imaginary wall.
Whether we live with a physical wall around our home or with an imaginary one, at times in our lives we put up a wall around ourselves. We hide behind the facade that all is well when really it is not. We don't let other people be a part of our lives for fear of getting hurt or getting rejected or maybe even laughed at. We don't want to invest our lives in others because life is tough and its difficult to just handle our own. I think we need to break down these imaginary walls and let others in. We need to not fear rejection and reach out to others even when it is difficult. We need to get back to how it used to be in America or how it is in rural Zambia where we take time with people and be more relational. I don't know who reads this blog but maybe someone reading it today has built up a wall around themselves and needs to tear it down. There are times when we find ourselves facing enormous ‘walls’ that are impossible to break down by human strength. If we put our faith in God and follow His commandments, He will perform ‘great and mighty things’ (Jer. 33:3) and give us the victory.

First Day of School

Wednesday was Hannah's first day of school in America. She has been home schooled up to this point in her life and we thought it might be good for her to try a public school while we are in the States. She is in 4th grade this year. So far she is really enjoying it. She has made lots of friends so that is what she talks about more than the work. Please pray she will have a good school year and that she would continue to grow in wisdom and stature.

These pictures were taken her first day of school.

Fun at the beach!

Hannah with Herman the crab.

We just got back from a few days at the beach. We were able to stay at a friends house in Surf City. It was so good for our family to get away and spend some time together. The time just went by too fast! I had lots of pics. so I tried to narrow it down a bit but there is still quite a bit. Hope you enjoy them.

I loved this bench with a surf board as the back rest.

Me and Kevin

This is the house we stayed in. Justin is up on the top deck.

Hannah made friends quick with this little girl Madison.

They really enjoyed playing together at the beach.

Kevin the surfer!

Justin enjoyed learning how to surf.

Sandcastle that Zach built.

Justin surfing

Zach surfing

Hannah enjoyed riding on the boogie board.

Hannah enjoyed digging in the sand.

Zach made Hannah into a mermaid.

Zach

Zach, Hannah, and Justin

All in one day...

While Kevin was mowing the yard today he saw this snake along the base of the house. At first he thought it was dead because it wasn't moving. After he saw it move he went to get a shovel so he could kill it. We know there are snakes in the US but we sure weren't expecting to have this in our yard. At least it wasn't poisonous!

After Kevin mowed the yard we went to the DMV so Zach could try to get his drivers license. He passed the written part and driving part. Here he is in this pic. with his temporary license.

I also got Hannah registered for 4th grade at Vance Elementary School. School actually starts on Monday but since we are at the beach until Tues. she will start on Wed.

We will be home schooling Justin during 10th grade so I got him registered with North Star and his curriculum ordered.

Lastly, we traveled 3 hours to visit with Kevin's family before heading to the beach. Kevin's sister had just had surgery so it was good to see her doing well and up and about.

......all in one day!