Wedding in Zambia

Saturday, we had the privilege of going to a wedding where we knew the bride and the groom very well. Kabinga Buleya and Christabel Mbewe were joined together as husband and wife. Weddings are a little different here compared to how they are in America. For example the wedding was supposed to start at 11:00 but it didn't actually start until 12:15. The reception was supposed to start at 2:00 but didn't start until about 3:00. This was our first city wedding to attend so it was a little different than the ones out in the bush. I wish I could add video so you could see just how lively the reception was. There was a lot of dancing going on. The bridal party danced in. Then the groom danced in and went back to get his wife so they then both danced up to the front together. They danced to deliver the cakes to each side of the family. The couple had what they called their first ballroom dance and then the wedding party joined in with that. There were lots of food, soft drinks, and loud music. It was really a fun day!

Mbewe walking his daughter down the aisle.

Kabinga unveiling Christabell.
(sidenote: that is someone taking pics. right up there where the couple was. In fact, there were two taking pics. and one making a video)

"I now pronounce you Mr. and Mrs. Kabinga Buleya." They really are happy. I have yet to go to a Zambian wedding where they smiled. Since it is a serious event they think they have to look serious the whole time. There were a lot more smiles at the reception.

The couple cutting the cake at the reception.
Before the couple cuts the cake there is a knife boy or girl who dances in with the knife. As he/she dances, people go up and put money in their shirt or pockets. This is quite lively!

The couple danced to get a portion of the cake and then danced to take one to the grooms side of the family and then another to the brides side of the family. After they fed each other some cake Kabinga finally leaned over and gave her a kiss. At the wedding he just hugged her which is quite common here.

Me and Kevin before we left for the wedding